Parents have to do everything by themselves
Kyrgyzstan-based Zhyldyz Sadykova is one of the first who founded the public association of parents of autistic children "Hand in hand".
"My grandson Daniyar Akeneyev is autistic. He is 14 now," Sadykova said. "He was diagnosed with it after a while. At some point, we noticed that he was not like other children: he did not want to contact people, did not respond to his name, played with toys alone. Back then, no one in Kyrgyzstan diagnosed "autism", and when we asked doctors about his behaviour, they said "the kid is OK", "children can be like this", "he will grow up", "wait, don't panic", etc."
Time passed, and Daniyar turned two. He could not speak and had no self-care skills. The situation got worse and the child developed hysteria. When they read about autism on the internet, Daniyar's family understood that the boy had all signs of the disorder. And they again started to look for good specialists.
"Daniyar's parents spent two years doing this," Sadykova said. "They were in Moscow, South Korea, Almaty, the USA. In the USA, their friends helped them find a good centre. My daughter-in-law Anara was told there that autism is for life. We were shocked to learn that this disorder cannot be cured, and we should do activities with the child very thoroughly and continuously. Before that, we had hoped to find some miraculous tablet and a doctor who would cure the boy."