When Aida turned five, she started to say some words and managed to attend a regular kindergarten. But only her family knows how difficult it was. Her mother, Asel Mairambekova, chair of the public association "Hearing together", told that they learned that the girl was deaf when she turned one year old.
"My parents were the first to notice it," Mairambekova said. "They noticed that Aida did not react to my voice, did not come when I called her."
When they passed a special test, parents learned that Aida was hearing-impaired. However, the problem was that some Kyrgyzstan-based hospitals made different diagnoses and to find out the exact diagnosis the family had to go to the Saint Petersburg Research Institute of Ear, Throat, Nose and Speech.
"They advised us to have the surgery as soon as possible while Aida was little," Asel said. "Doctors said that rehabilitation would be better and good results could be achieved."
When they returned home, Aida's family started to look for various ways of performing the surgery. When they learned about the quotas in Turkey, Mairambekova applied for it, but they learned that their turn would be only in two years. When searching for other options, Asel learned about the association "Hearing together", which was opened at the initiative of a group of parents of children with cochlear implants.
"At that moment, the association happened to cooperate with the German foundation, which helped financially with performing such operations," Mairambekova said. "We applied, were selected and they performed the surgery."
Now Aida undergoes rehabilitation, visits various teachers and even managed to attend a regular kindergarten. However, almost everywhere, according to Asel, they face various obstacles. For example, when passing a psychological-medical-pedagogical commission for establishing the diagnosis and receiving the benefits.
"Sometimes I have a feeling that ENT doctors taking part in commissions do not know what a 'cochlear implant' is," Mairambekova said. "They think that if the operation was performed, it's over now, the child is absolutely healthy, can hear, speak and we do not need the money. I have to explain to them that if the device is removed, the child will not hear anything – the child remains deaf. And if something gets broken in the implant, it needs to be replaced, which is expensive."
According to Mairambekova, there is generally no support from the state in Kyrgyzstan apart from benefits.
"For example, in Russia, they hold weekly rehabilitations after the surgery at the cost of the state, and we do not have such rehabilitations," she said. "Yes, there were quotas provided by Turkey, but they performed only surgeries and nothing else. Rehabilitation, buying of implants, devices, replacement, setting of cables – all these are at our own cost. Parents do everything and pay for everything themselves."
According to Asel, theoretically, hearing screening test must be available in every maternity home as it helps to identify the problem, if any, and to start acting. Moreover, another critical problem, according to her, is the lack of psychological aid.
She said that right after the diagnose is made, parents feel at a loss as they do not know what to do, where to go. So, doctors need to explain, refer and describe everything in a correct way and in plain language.